In the illusory world, where my mind is all the time, i am a writer.

But sometimes, the real life inspires me for my writings.

Few days ago, a dear friend of mine wrote me on whatsapp at 5:30 am that he wants to break up with his wife and needs a house so that she could move in there right away.

At 6 am i was presenting him the house.

At 7 am she was already unpacking her things in the house i rented for them.

I was looking at the 2 of them and i was smiling ... but i did not said anything.

They both looked very seriously.

Everybody believed that they broke up, but i did not even bother to take their money or at least to sign a contract for renting.

I speak lots of things with my friend and i just told him ... “Why haven’t you thought to go in a vacation for few days?! I believe is even cheaper that making the move you’ve done today”.

Of course ... he replied that he is very seriously about this and he will not change his mind.

3 days later, he brought me the key to the house and asked me how much he needs to pay for those 3 days.

I started to laugh ... and nothing could stop myself from doing that.

My dear friend changed his face when i was starting to do that, but he knew that i had strong reasons to laugh.

You see ... so many times in life ... we stop smoking, stop drinking alcohol, stop eating so much ... but that “big change” takes only 2-3 days.

Why?!

Because it’s not a huge determination.

And even if it looks like a huge one ... it’s only like a fire ... that stops very soon.

What can we do?!

Is there kind of a “therapy” for that?!

Well ... i believe that at the right time ... everything will happen in the way it will need to happen.

And even if it looks that you failed ... you need to see it as an experiment and remember that Edison failed in 1000 experiments before he invented the electric light bulb.

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